Sarcasm is the art of conveying irony through contempt, mockery, or satire - something that native English speakers are quite used to in everyday conversations. That’s what makes mastering sarcasm necessary for confident communication in any setting, whether you’re texting friends or chatting with colleagues.
Although the concept of sarcasm is present across other cultures, everyone finds different ways of expressing it. A series of studies have shown how sarcasm is practiced differently in Cantonese, French, and Mexican Spanish. Sarcasm can also have some variation in how it is practiced within the same language! Depending on the context, there may be different norms for what is and isn’t acceptable.
In this article, we’re going to help sharpen your language skills by showing you how to strike just the right balance between sarcasm and professionalism.
Before we dive into the world of professionalism, let's quickly revisit sarcasm.
Sarcasm is a form of verbal or written irony where the intended meaning is the opposite of what is said. It's often delivered with a humorous or mocking tone and can add a delightful layer of complexity to the language.
There are several markers of sarcasm. When spoken out loud, intonation can often be a dead giveaway. In other contexts such as sarcasm online, it can be a bit more difficult to spot.
The professional realm can be a tricky place for sarcasm. On one hand, it can break the ice, relieve tensions, and foster camaraderie among colleagues. On the other hand, it can be misinterpreted and lead to confusion or even outrage. So how do we strike that delicate balance?
Here are some tips:
Understanding your audience is critical when using sarcasm in a professional setting. Some colleagues may be receptive to humor, while others may prefer a more formal tone. Gauge the personalities and preferences of your coworkers and adjust your approach accordingly.
If you know your colleague appreciates sarcasm, you might say, "Oh, another thrilling spreadsheet to analyze!" with a wink and a smile. With someone who prefers a more formal tone, however, it is much better to say something like, "Let me take a look at the spreadsheet".
While sarcasm can add value to communication, it's not suitable for every situation. You should reserve it for appropriate moments, such as team meetings or casual conversations with colleagues. Avoid using sarcasm in serious discussions or when delivering critical feedback.
For example, you’d want to avoid sarcasm when responding to work given to you by your boss.
Professionalism demands clarity in communication. When using sarcasm, ensure your message is clear and that the interlocutor understands your intent. It might be better to hold yourself back if the comment that comes to mind is convoluted or overly complex. Don’t hesitate to clarify your intent if you do say something and your interlocutor appears confused. Even a little “just kidding” goes a long way.
Sarcasm can sometimes be too subtle for people to understand. For example, instead of saying, "Well, that was the most productive meeting I've ever attended”, you can say, "I think we broke a record for the longest meeting in history", with a playful tone.
When it comes to non-verbal or written sarcasm, a good way to convey tone is through emojis. In professional contexts, however, they should be used judiciously. A well-placed smiley face or laughing emoji in a text can indicate sarcasm, but excessive emojis or emojis in inappropriate places, like in a report, can come across as unprofessional.
Sarcasm can create an ‘in-crowd’ feeling, where those who understand it share a laugh while others feel excluded. It can also run the risk of making someone feel put down. In a professional setting, aim for inclusivity and ensure everyone in the conversation can appreciate it.
For example, saying something in a group setting like “I guess you have as much work as my milkman!” to a colleague who has just been assigned a lot of work, can be confusing. First, it is a reference he is not likely to understand even if you’ve talked before about your milkman’s lack of work. Second, it might feel demeaning.
Instead, you can say, "Looks like we’re all going to finish work nice and early today, huh?” That is a comment that doesn’t single anyone out, doesn’t make inaccessible comparisons, and makes light of the fact that everyone will be working extra hard.
Pay attention to how your colleagues have been reacting to your sarcasm. If you notice confusion, discomfort, or offense, it's a signal to reassess your approach and be more mindful of your audience. You should also avoid using sarcasm excessively as it can lose its charm and become tiresome. Remember to offer clarifications whenever you’re not sure of the impact your sarcasm has!
Self-deprecating humor, where you make fun of yourself, can be a comparatively safe and endearing way to incorporate sarcasm in a professional setting. It shows humility and lightens the atmosphere without targeting others.
For example, when faced with a minor mistake, you can say, "Well, I guess I'm the reigning champion of typos today", with a chuckle.
In addition to spoken communication, striking a balance between sarcasm and professionalism in written communication is equally important. That is particularly true of emails and workplace documents.
Here's how to do it:
Determine the appropriate level of formality of your written communication. Emails to superiors or clients require a more serious tone, while internal team communications can be more relaxed.
In an email to a client, you might say, "We appreciate your patience as we work to resolve this matter", without sarcasm. In an internal team email, you could say, "Well, folks, another thrilling day in the world of spreadsheets!" if it aligns with your team's culture.
Be cautious when using sarcasm in documents or emails related to sensitive or serious subjects, such as HR matters or legal issues. In such cases, opt for a more straightforward and professional tone.
Finally, before sending any written communication with sarcasm, take a moment to review and edit. Ensure your message is clear and that the sarcasm enhances rather than hinders understanding.
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